Aloha Friday: Parking Lot Encounter
On Tuesday, after work, I stopped by the local grocery store. I needed a few items and was in a hurry to get in and get out. As I walked to the store, a man approached me. He apologized for bothering me and explained that he was laid off and has two kids. He asked if I had a dollar or two I could spare.
Almost instinctively, I felt the urge to ignore him and walk on. Perhaps mumble something about not having any money on me as I quickened my pace. Then, for a split second, I thought to myself: What if I was in his position? What if I was laid off and my family rendered homeless? What if my best bet to put food on the table for my children was to ask for money from strangers?
I told him I didn’t think I had much cash, but fished a couple of dollars out of my wallet to give him. I wished him luck and we went our separate ways. As I did so, I felt a wave of sadness that I couldn’t do more to help him.
Sure, the guy could have been lying to me. He could have taken my cash and gone directly to a nearby liquor store instead of buying food for his kids. Maybe he doesn’t even have any children. I’m a big believer of taking a person at their word, though. A bit naïve? Perhaps, but I’d rather assume the best about someone and be proven wrong than assume the worst of people from the outset.
I hope that, that night, his family was able to eat, in part, thanks to the money I gave him. I also hope that his luck turns around and he is able to find work soon.
My Aloha Friday question for today is: Have you ever had someone down on their luck ask you for money? If so, what did you do? If not, what would you do?
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Disclaimer: The “Money – banknotes and coin” clipart above is from OpenClipArt.org.